Alexandra ChoutkoJournal

Alexandra Choutko

Journal

Self-hatred fueling transformation and other tales of love

The hatred fueling my transformation, the need to become someone you can stay with, and learning to change from a place of tenderness.

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If I am only nice enough…

Recognising confusion as a strategy, owning what I am doing, and discovering the adult seat inside me.

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Staying harmless through confusion

How we confuse ourselves to stay harmless, how the childhood strategy exhausts our lives now, and its collective consequences.

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If I am only nice enough…

On the bargains we make for care, the confusion that sustains them, and the responsibility of creating our lives.

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